Family Socialization

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Current Research Journal of Biological Sciences 4(2): 173-181, 2012
ISSN: 2041-3246
© Maxwell Scientific Organization, 2012
Submitted: December 30, 2011
Accepted: January 31, 2012

Published: March 20, 2012

The Role of Family in Educating-Socializing Children: The Case of Vietnam
Nguyen Thanh Binh
Free University of Berlin, Germany, Institute of Sociology, Gary strasse 55, 14195
Berlin, Germany
Abstract: Vietnamese families are the first, primary and deciding factor in educating-socializing each person.
It is through families that people can learn the standards, values approved by the society. Families are the first human group, which people are raised, looked after, educated and grown up. During childhood, children live in families and learn a lot by observing and teaching, and know what is wrong or right, should or shouldn’t .
In Vietnamese families, fathers and mothers play the most important role in educating children. Fathers symbolize intelligence, will, and family discipline to unite children-especially sons. Mothers who are often careful, close to children everyday, find out and timely shape misleading, and better at raising children lifestyle.
With tender and tactful attitude, mothers convert, persuade and teach children to love even when they grow up.
Key words: Children, education, family, socialization, Vietnam
A.C. Macarenco what parents do for children before the age of 5 is 90% of the result of educating (Chuong, 2000).
Therefore, wanting children to fully develop their character, and not opposed with social requirements, families must educate children from the early age make hay when the sun shines. What learnt in the cradle lasts till the tomb However, families play an important role not only in the early period of human character building
(provide social experience, rear, look after, train habits and skills from the…...

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